The psycho always gets the guy!

[Trip]

I agree ebbs, plus no one really knows a person til they are in a relationship with that person. Those that appear nice to everyone on the outside world, can sometimes be super bitches/dicks in a relationship. Ask me how I know.... Damn gingers, no souls..... I don't buy the nice to the world bit anymore due to this, I just got jaded by that girl. The assholes of the world can be nice, but most of the time they are assholes still.

I still think the best way to find out about a person is to ask their Ex's, not their friends. You will still get a biased answer, but you will get the worst possible answer. So if you can live with that, you will be fine.