Shennanigans

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Originally Posted by itgirl

the longer i am married the more it feels like a business arrangement, and less like a relationship. i feel like we exchange goods and services for one another. we, too, have separate finances. i'd be totally screwed if my husband died tomorrow, because i have no idea how much he makes or owes and to whom. the only thing we really share are the kids. i guess i am becoming jaded now or something, but marriage just ain't what it used to be for me (or what i expected).

considering our nature isn't to marry but to spread the seed, this is not surprising. It pretty much is a business arrangement.