Unreal. High School gang rape.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by unknownroad

Because most women are attracted to the "bad boys" How many of them reported it to the police? How many of them returned to the same damned guy afterwards?

Originally Posted by HurricaneHeather

Or they believe that it was somehow their fault that it happened.

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[unknownroad]

Originally Posted by azoomm

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If you already knew the answer, why did you ask?

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by unknownroad

If you already knew the answer, why did you ask?

Because I'm a woman... don't you know that women are put on this Earth to confuse the men?

No, but seriously. I don't understand it - I've been in the situation. I didn't go to the police for the exact reason she stated. Hind-sight tells me I was an idiot. In the moment, I was freaked out and just wanted to go home and forget...

[HurricaneHeather]

Originally Posted by azoomm

Because I'm a woman... don't you know that women are put on this Earth to confuse the men?

No, but seriously. I don't understand it - I've been in the situation. I didn't go to the police for the exact reason she stated. Hind-sight tells me I was an idiot. In the moment, I was freaked out and just wanted to go home and forget...

But that doesn't answer the question of 'How is it that men feel this way - yet it continues to happen in all parts of society?'

[Papa_Complex]

Originally Posted by HurricaneHeather

But that doesn't answer the question of 'How is it that men feel this way - yet it continues to happen in all parts of society?'

For that you would have to ask a guy who thinks that sort of thing is acceptable behaviour and you'll either not find that sort of guy here, or won't find someone who would admit to being that sort of guy here.

[unknownroad]

Originally Posted by Papa_Complex

For that you would have to ask a guy who thinks that sort of thing is acceptable behaviour and you'll either not find that sort of guy here, or won't find someone who would admit to being that sort of guy here.

I suspect there are a number of guys here, who have no idea that some woman in their past is now thinking of them as a rapist I'd betcha.

But find me (if you can) a woman who can honestly say that she isn't attracted to men who are confident and assertive, and i'll also betcha she hasn't been the victim of date rape

[Avatard]

Not everyone is a neanderthal.

I've never even pressed a woman to have sex where she would ever feel uncomfortable. No is no.

I always figured, on the offhanded chance you were the kind of woman where it was really a game, and "no really wasn't no", then you were just gonna hafta play that game with someone else.

I don't see gray areas in this.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by unknownroad

I suspect there are a number of guys here, who have no idea that some woman in their past is now thinking of them as a rapist I'd betcha.

But find me (if you can) a woman who can honestly say that she isn't attracted to men who are confident and assertive, and i'll also betcha she hasn't been the victim of date rape

Right, so what you're saying is... it's her fault for even being in the situation because she was attracted to it in the first place.

[Kaneman]

Originally Posted by Avatard

Not everyone is a neanderthal.

I've never even pressed a woman to have sex where she would ever feel uncomfortable. No is no.

I always figured, on the offhanded chance you were the kind of woman where it was really a game, and "no really wasn't no", then you were just gonna hafta play that game with someone else.

I don't see gray areas in this.

Reminds me of a date I went on once with a girl who was apparently all about the games. I rode over to her house like an hour away and the temp dropped about 20 degrees down to the 40s. Well, we went out, had some steak and saw some music and then went back to her place so I could get my bike and go home.

She invited me to stay since it was so cold as long as "I promised to be good." I wasn't dressed for the cold so I really appreciated it...was planning to sleep on the couch. She said I didn't have to and I could sleep in the bed as "long as I was good." So I went to bed wearing my jeans, and decided to be good.

I found out later from the friend that hooked us up that she couldn't figure out why I didn't fuck her, lol. Well you dumb bitch you shoulda asked!

[Kaneman]

Originally Posted by azoomm

Right, so what you're saying is... it's her fault for even being in the situation because she was attracted to it in the first place.

No, I think what he's saying is that those types of women are much more likely to be raped. Or put themselves in a position to be raped.

I know its a sensitive subject...but if I go walking through the ghetto in Dallas at 2a.m. without a police escort or a large rifle and I get robbed then yes, I'm a victim of robbery...but I'm also a dumbass.

You know?