Hey Boys!!!

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

Shhh... I'm trying to stir some shit up..... besides, I got pm's about it and someone else mentioned it before me... Anyway, I'm trying to have some fun here!

BTW I do realize that some of you are actually slamming the guys on this forum whose wives aren't having sex with them. I think that's despicable personally. I'm sorry to single you out, but Ed is one of the most honorable and faithful husbands I have ever had the pleasure to meet. He won't even discuss going to a strip bar and very seldom gets involved in some of the more lewd portions of this board. Lessor men would have already had a girl on the side or have packed their belongings. Heck, this woman has even kept him from one of the greatest pleasures of his life, motorcycling! He is a good man and doesn't deserve derision of any kind public or private.

You're right, to single him out would be wrong and despicable. We didn't do that - and haven't to anyone on this forum behind closed doors. Most of the women on here would call you out here rather than talk about it back there We were referring in a general sense, as it's happened more than once [closer to eleventy billion times] that men refer to getting married as the sex-stopper.

[Particle Man]

Originally Posted by Rider

I'm working on that. I think the sad pathetic look on my face on nice days here are getting to her.

I've been leaving bike mags around the house to wear my wife down too

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

NO! It's your fault that you didn't find this out before you married him! I know people can "change" and that they hide things but their fundamental nature is there to find if you hard enough. People overlook these "quirks" and make excuses for this type of behavior from their mates long before it gets to your stage. I don't believe that his "douchebaggedness" was completely undetectable before you married him. You probably overlooked it because he had other more positive traits thinking that you could put up with his faults because of them.

Nope.

I knew him before they married. He's VERY charming.... hindsight sees him as almost a predator. Almost.

[Rider]

Originally Posted by azoomm

You're right, to single him out would be wrong and despicable. We didn't do that - and haven't to anyone on this forum behind closed doors. Most of the women on here would call you out here rather than talk about it back there We were referring in a general sense, as it's happened more than once [closer to eleventy billion times] that men refer to getting married as the sex-stopper.

I agree, I didn't take it as a poke at me personally. It was a general comment about the large number of men that complain about the frequency of sex.

[Corey]

Sex after marriage doesn't stop, it just changes. Instead of no holds barred, break the bed, aerobic style sex, you just wait till she sleeps, put your penis on her cheek, take a picture and jerk off to it later.

[rogue]

God I'm so glad I'm not attached and don't want to be!

Relationship drama is complete BULLSHIT!!!!

Originally Posted by Corey

Sex after marriage doesn't stop, it just changes. Instead of no holds barred, break the bed, aerobic style sex, you just wait till she sleeps, put your penis on her cheek, take a picture and jerk off to it later.

Hahahahahaaa!!!!

You must have overloaded on Flinstone vitamins this morning!

[lauralynne]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

NO! It's your fault that you didn't find this out before you married him! I know people can "change" and that they hide things but their fundamental nature is there to find if you hard enough. People overlook these "quirks" and make excuses for this type of behavior from their mates long before it gets to your stage. I don't believe that his "douchebaggedness" was completely undetectable before you married him. You probably overlooked it because he had other more positive traits thinking that you could put up with his faults because of them.

Goddamn double standards.
Let me see if I get this straight:
Women ALWAYS change after marriage and men NEVER do.

Ok. Got it. Thanks.

[Archren]

Originally Posted by TIGGER

NO! It's your fault that you didn't find this out before you married him! I know people can "change" and that they hide things but their fundamental nature is there to find if you hard enough. People overlook these "quirks" and make excuses for this type of behavior from their mates long before it gets to your stage. I don't believe that his "douchebaggedness" was completely undetectable before you married him. You probably overlooked it because he had other more positive traits thinking that you could put up with his faults because of them.

I was 20 when I married him. He was 41. Yeah, I was pretty naive back then, and he took advantage of that. The worst stuff I didn't find out until a couple years later, after we'd had kids.. at that point I felt stuck.

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by azoomm

You're right, to single him out would be wrong and despicable. We didn't do that - and haven't to anyone on this forum behind closed doors. Most of the women on here would call you out here rather than talk about it back there We were referring in a general sense, as it's happened more than once [closer to eleventy billion times] that men refer to getting married as the sex-stopper.

Okay but the OP titled this thread "Hey Boys!!! You aren't doing it right! Which implies that he and the other married men on this forum who aren't getting laid are being rejected through some fault of their own. Or am I failing "reading comprehension 101" once again?

[Archren]

And FWIW, Tracy will tell you we don't have a problem with sex (although we're not married YET)... other than that whole 400 mile distance thing during the week.