Horrible Day :(

[DLIT]

Originally Posted by byron12

I agree I did just that and have been in a happy relationship for five years married for three of those....

Me too. Been together for 4.5, lived together for 3 and we got married last September.

[lauralynne]

seems obvious: get the hell out, don't look back, don't tell him where you're going or what you're doing. He sounds dangerous and this is only going to end badly if you stay where you BOTH lived. Stay with your friend for a short time and then find a place of your own. Stand on your own two feet, learn a little more about yourself and your relationships. Don't date - or don't date men YOU choose...you've picked some real doozeys twice now, it's starting to look like a pattern.

[Mistress Maygin]

Originally Posted by lauralynne

seems obvious: get the hell out, don't look back, don't tell him where you're going or what you're doing. He sounds dangerous and this is only going to end badly if you stay where you BOTH lived. Stay with your friend for a short time and then find a place of your own. Stand on your own two feet, learn a little more about yourself and your relationships. Don't date - or don't date men YOU choose...you've picked some real doozeys twice now, it's starting to look like a pattern.

I've also picked winners that it just didn't work out with. So to say that I am incapable of choosing my own mate is a bit messed up. I bet everyone here who is in a happy relationship now dated at least one person who was fucked up in some way, does that mean that someone else had to pick the person they are happy with? No, it means that we live and learn. I did learn from the last asshole. This one was way different. Now I've learned that even nice guys are complete Fucking sociopaths underneath.

If the house we were in wasn't a few doors down from his entire family of psychos, then I would kick him and the roomies out and enjoy the home that I paid for and liked just fine. Unfortunately, because he's off his rocker, I have to give it up. Just like my last awesome place. Because my safety and happiness are more important than some piece of real estate. I'm not that stupid.

I've been standing on my own two feet for a long time. Just because I stumble every now and again doesn't mean I should be in wheelchair forever. I'm usually the one taking care of people. I'm the one paying all the bills, etc.

I think you assume too many negative things about me based on one fact: that I dated someone who isn't worth the air he breathes. And pay no attention to all the good choices I made in the situation. And you're basing my inability to choose good people on what you know from this post- which is hardly anything. I've dated more than two people in my lifetime. Only the two mentioned here were violent assholes.

[fnfalman]

Alas, you never know how screwed up a person really is until that day.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by Mistress Maygin

I think you assume too many negative things about me based on one fact: that I dated someone who isn't worth the air he breathes.

No.

Assumptions are made because the pattern you are showing matches a pattern WE have lived. These are suggestions based on our own life experiences... that's all we can provide.

It isn't that you can't be trusted to chose your own. It's that as women, we generally make bad choices there... overall.

[vabarber2]

Originally Posted by fnfalman

Alas, you never know how screwed up a person really is until that day.

[DLIT]

Originally Posted by azoomm

No.

Assumptions are made because the pattern you are showing matches a pattern WE have lived. These are suggestions based on our own life experiences... that's all we can provide.

It isn't that you can't be trusted to chose your own. It's that as women, we generally make bad choices there... overall.

*argument brewing...*

[vabarber2]

Originally Posted by DLIT

*argument brewing...*

Go ahead DLIT. I see you poping the popcorn and pulling up a ring side seat.

[DLIT]

Originally Posted by vabarber2

Go ahead DLIT. I see you poping the popcorn and pulling up a ring side seat.

More like preparing to stop viewing this thread.

[vabarber2]

Originally Posted by DLIT

More like preparing to stop viewing this thread.

Yeah, thats the best bet. I don't understand why people get defensive, you'll never see the person talking shit to you on the internet so why care what they think?