Hey Boys!!! - Page 9

Archren · 05-01-2009, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

Um...if you knew about these things then why the fuck did you marry him? Are you stupid or did you fail to get to know him before you tied the knot?, which would actually be pretty stupid in itself. Oh don't tell me you're one of these women who marry men thinking that they'll "fix them"....

Reading comprehension FTW, dude. Go back and look at the part where I said "he didn't mention that part BEFORE we tied the knot."

Amber Lamps · 05-01-2009, 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by rogue

You can live with a person for years and not really know them. Also, people change naturally. They get new ideas, like new things, change their minds about other shit.

Yea but she said that she "knew about things in his past" which caused her not to want to have sex with him. I understand that you'll never know EVERYTHING about another person but this sounds pretty basic to me.

Rider · 05-01-2009, 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

BTW I do realize that some of you are actually slamming the guys on this forum whose wives aren't having sex with them. I think that's despicable personally. I'm sorry to single you out, but Ed is one of the most honorable and faithful husbands I have ever had the pleasure to meet. He won't even discuss going to a strip bar and very seldom gets involved in some of the more lewd portions of this board. Lessor men would have already had a girl on the side or have packed their belongings. Heck, this woman has even kept him from one of the greatest pleasures of his life, motorcycling! He is a good man and doesn't deserve derision of any kind public or private.

Hey Tigs not to burst your bubble but I did stray once... Not in person but I carried on a short term online thing for a little while with one woman. It didn't work out which was best for both of us. I'm back on the straight an narrow though. But yeah, I never go to strip clubs hang out at bars with female friends or any other nonsense. Oh and the lewd topics.... I mostly avoid because of work. I swear like a longshoreman and I've been to Thailand so so there is nothing that offends me. LOL

Particle Man · 05-01-2009, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Corey

That's why all my girlfriends (ok, hookers) are mute amputees. Sure, I'll never get a handjob from them, but none of those bitches will talk behind my back.

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Originally Posted by derf

I met him and i din't want to have sex with him either

okaaaaaaaaaaaay then

MILK · 05-01-2009, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Rider

Some women just have no desire. The day I got a vasectomy, she didn't want sex anymore. She wanted more kids and I didn't. I don't ever watch porn, or surf the web at all when I am at home. She is a spoiled housewife who doesn't work and I take care of all of her needs, she just doesn't take care of mine. Evey ones situation is different so you cant judge and say she's not giving it up because you suck in bed or you are an asshole. She just has no desire because we can't procreate anymore. It's not that I never get it but once a month is no where near how much I want it. Might as well be nothing compared to the 7 times a day we did it before we had kids.

I know someone in your exact situation. It amazes me what some people will do to the people they are supposed to love the most.

That really sucks.

Amber Lamps · 05-01-2009, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Archren

Reading comprehension FTW, dude. Go back and look at the part where I said "he didn't mention that part BEFORE we tied the knot."

Writing composition FTW, chick. You said that he didn't mention wanting to have three ways, etc before marriage. You stated that "you KNEW things about his past that made you not want to have sex with him" not that you later DISCOVERED things about him that caused you to no longer wish to have sex with him. Besides, most women don't want to know where you've been in the past sexually, did you ask him about his sexual history and he lied to you? Did you divulge your entire sexual history to him unsolicited? Anyway, I hope that you learned your lesson and actually get to know your partners from now on before you haphazardly engage in a union that's supposed to be for life.

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Originally Posted by corey

just remember to keep your wives and husbands spayed or neutered.

qft!

Archren · 05-01-2009, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

Writing composition FTW, chick. You said that he didn't mention wanting to have three ways, etc before marriage. You stated that "you KNEW things about his past that made you not want to have sex with him" not that you later DISCOVERED things about him that caused you to no longer wish to have sex with him. Besides, most women don't want to know where you've been in the past sexually, did you ask him about his sexual history and he lied to you? Did you divulge your entire sexual history to him unsolicited? Anyway, I hope that you learned your lesson and actually get to know your partners from now on before you haphazardly engage in a union that's supposed to be for life.

Right, so it's MY fault he was a douchebag who was emotionally and physically abusive. Right-o, noted.

Amber Lamps · 05-01-2009, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Rider

Hey Tigs not to burst your bubble but I did stray once... Not in person but I carried on a short term online thing for a little while with one woman. It didn't work out which was best for both of us. I'm back on the straight an narrow though. But yeah, I never go to strip clubs hang out at bars with female friends or any other nonsense. Oh and the lewd topics.... I mostly avoid because of work. I swear like a longshoreman and I've been to Thailand so so there is nothing that offends me. LOL

Well, I didn't say you were a saint! You're a good guy Ed, and I honestly admire you! So shut the fuck up!

BTW I still think you should go buy another bike!

Rider · 05-01-2009, 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by TIGGER

BTW I still think you should go buy another bike!

I'm working on that. I think the sad pathetic look on my face on nice days here are getting to her.

Amber Lamps · 05-01-2009, 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Archren

Right, so it's MY fault he was a douchebag who was emotionally and physically abusive. Right-o, noted.

NO! It's your fault that you didn't find this out before you married him! I know people can "change" and that they hide things but their fundamental nature is there to find if you hard enough. People overlook these "quirks" and make excuses for this type of behavior from their mates long before it gets to your stage. I don't believe that his "douchebaggedness" was completely undetectable before you married him. You probably overlooked it because he had other more positive traits thinking that you could put up with his faults because of them.