01-11-2010, 04:41 PM | #1 |
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Stalkers
How is it that people feel the need to follow people around. Especially people that they claim to love, or have loved? I mean, do they think that being part of the other person's life will make them closer to that person in some way? OR, do they think it will make the other person love them and want to be with them?
I know, I'm trying to understand crazy. In most cases crazy won't ever be understood. I'm just looking for a little enlightenment.
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01-11-2010, 05:03 PM | #2 |
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01-11-2010, 05:05 PM | #3 |
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01-11-2010, 05:09 PM | #4 |
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Because you stopped answering my PMs.
Seriously, though, I'm gonna go with, "Having trouble letting go (of the good or the bad, take your pick)..." |
01-11-2010, 05:13 PM | #5 |
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You're right that you can't understand crazy.
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01-11-2010, 05:15 PM | #6 |
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makes em crazy
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01-11-2010, 05:28 PM | #7 | |
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I was thinking the trouble letting go was probably the top of the list. I mean, how dare the other person move on with their life when you can't [or won't]. That, maybe if the stalker hangs around the stalkee enough they will remember all the fantastic times and want to give it another go? Let's just forget all the psycho activity of being a bad stalker because you're busted out in the open and stuff.... I mean, if you were a good stalker no one would know you're there... right?
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01-11-2010, 06:16 PM | #8 |
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Have had two of them from m/c boards. Both lived w/in 30 miles of me. One would show up at the house when they knew the b/f wasn't there. I think he got the hint when we moved 200 miles away.
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As for stalkers... I don't know. I've only had an issue with one I couldn't get to leave me alone for a couple years and later found out that she actually was crazy. Certified crazy. |
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01-11-2010, 06:37 PM | #10 |
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I don't think that is the case. I think that the stalker wants the stalkee to know how much they care, so they probably want to be seen.
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