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[Flexin]

Originally Posted by Kaneman

I wanna get back to this inability to have an orgasm thing as I find it extremely relevant to your situation. Are you sure your not a lesbian? You have short hair and a bad attitude....its possible....

Slow down skippy. One thing at a time. We are still waiting on pics.

James

[unknownroad]

Originally Posted by Kaneman

I wanna get back to this inability to have an orgasm thing as I find it extremely relevant to your situation. Are you sure your not a lesbian? You have short hair and a bad attitude....its possible....

So i take it that after 6 pages there are still no pics? Sure am glad i skipped ahead!

[Apoc]

Originally Posted by itgirl

true, tigger. but since i did ask for opinions i must now take my lashing from everyone. it's cool. no worries.

I cant form a proper opinion until I see titty pics! Preferably on the Nightster!

[Speedracer42]

Originally Posted by itgirl

my husband has no problem viewing naked women but seems to have an issue if the pics are of myself for others' viewing pleasure. sounds like a double-standard. am i wrong? it's not like there is any physical intimacy taking place. i don't get it.

I see this ALOT. My gf's ex husband was like this. BAD. SUPER jealous guy though in general. Her wearing a revealing top was a big deal. I am the polar opposite with her and even posted some noods of her on another forum we are on. She LOVES that I am proud enough of her to let her be/feel sexy and even enough to share that with others. I don't get why more guys aren't this way. That being said I never do it without her permission, and she approves the pics. Easy

[smileyman]

People change over their lives and it is a no brainer to assume that men and womens emotional and psychological needs arent goin to be in synch. When they are wow lotsa fun, but not usually.

So how to fulfill your needs without causing the person you care about the most pain? First step is the hardest. Actually figuring out what you need and why, then you have to communicate that. Or simply get happy living a lie...

[azoomm]

Tigger, Dr. Phil would imply there is something to fix. I think it's beyond fixing - or that one or both don't want to fix it. Unhappy? That's up to you to decide.

It all comes down to what you can live with.

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by Kaneman

I wanna get back to this inability to have an orgasm thing as I find it extremely relevant to your situation. Are you sure your not a lesbian? You have short hair and a bad attitude....its possible....

i won't even dignify that tired, blatant display of sexual stereotyping with an answer. is it really that hard to believe that a man might not know how to please a woman?

Originally Posted by azoomm

Tigger, Dr. Phil would imply there is something to fix. I think it's beyond fixing - or that one or both don't want to fix it. Unhappy? That's up to you to decide.

It all comes down to what you can live with.

i like this answer.

[Kaneman]

Originally Posted by itgirl

i won't even dignify that tired, blatant display of sexual stereotyping with an answer. is it really that hard to believe that a man might not know how to please a woman?

Um, yes, it really is that hard to believe. It is even more hard to believe that someone would marry a guy that can't please them sexually...

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by Kaneman

Um, yes, it really is that hard to believe. It is even more hard to believe that someone would marry a guy that can't please them sexually...

ok. whatever. you win. pigeonhole me if you like. you don't know me. there is more to marriage than sex. has been for 12 years. just recently changed for me.

[smileyman]

My first marriage lasted 12 yrs, current one has been 7. I think from what you infer I have been on both sides of this occaision. Can you live with being unfulfilled, can your spouse allow you to grow and explore without feeling threatened?