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Originally Posted by Avatard
Likewise, withholding sex, and showing your tits to others won't make him listen more, it will make him resent you more, and make the two of you more distant.
Try "paying forward" the love, rather than withholding, and see how that works.
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I agree..but I also know that if it has come to withholding sex and sending dirty pics to other people "paying it forward" is probably the LAST thing she wants to do right now. Unless of course she is paying it forward with a steak knife.
I suggest TALKING to your so. If he won't listen, try harder. Hurting him by sending pics to someone else against his wishes is only going to make the situation worse. The whole "if you won't pay attention to me then I will find someone who will" only EVER ends badly.