how good you have it..

[Amber Lamps]

Originally Posted by eBBs15

I came to this realization a year ago... along with how trivial a lot of things are... how little things I used to obsess about really matter in the big scheme of things.

I'm much less stressed because of it. dunno if I'm happier... but with out the stress I feel much better.

Very true...Pre-"Big C", I was always stressing stupid little problems but now I hardly ever get upset about anything. I just let it come and wash over me as if my skin were made of Teflon, nothing sticks. Bad things still happen, I got a speeding ticket (have to pay $600 and do 40 hrs community service), they changed computer systems at work, GF, etc but now I understand that if I have a pulse, things could be much worse. All wrongs can be made right with patience, determination and hard work.