Shennanigans

[neebelung]

Yeah the "after party" will be the best part, I'm sure. We're doing that like a month later, here in Jax. Kegs, food, DJ, and just FUN. No line dances, no chicken dances, no bouquet toss... just a party!

[Trip]

Originally Posted by comonboys

Are you pulling the guy card "ooo, it's her day so I will let her do whatever she wants??????"

Thats so true but so bs......

Cutty already told me that planning the wedding will be left up to me, his mom and my mom, he only gets one vote and that's for the cake. Which is perfectly fine with me cause I don't like cake at all so it's all him on that one. I would like him to be (whenever the time comes) to be more involved cause it's his day to......

Not for everything, I am fighting for what I want on some aspects. I have helped a lot. The wedding planner is doing a good bit of the work and her mom gets a big say because she is the $$$. I have had my fair share of choices in it though.

[itgirl]

Originally Posted by neebelung

Yeah the "after party" will be the best part, I'm sure. We're doing that like a month later, here in Jax. Kegs, food, DJ, and just FUN. No line dances, no chicken dances, no bouquet toss... just a party!

savin' the chicken dance for the stoplights, huh?

it's not a wedding without the electric slide. when i got married, i banned that song from the reception. it's so cliche.


my husband and i originally eloped, but ended up having an official ceremony a year later near our anniversary. i missed not having the white dress and wedding photos to show my kids someday.

[Cutty72]

Originally Posted by comonboys

Are you pulling the guy card "ooo, it's her day so I will let her do whatever she wants??????"

Thats so true but so bs......

Cutty already told me that planning the wedding will be left up to me, his mom and my mom, he only gets one vote and that's for the cake. Which is perfectly fine with me cause I don't like cake at all so it's all him on that one. I would like him to be (whenever the time comes) to be more involved cause it's his day to......

ahem... 2 votes. cake and tux.
and of course i'll have a little pull on the reception stuff... even though i may not remember all of it

[Trip]

Originally Posted by Cutty72

ahem... 2 votes. cake and tux.
and of course i'll have a little pull on the reception stuff... even though i may not remember all of it

Best advice from first hand experience, get a swatch of cloth that she will be using on the bridesmaid's dresses and go to the tux store by yourself. It will save you an ginormous headache.

[comonboys]

Originally Posted by Cutty72

ahem... 2 votes. cake and tux.
and of course i'll have a little pull on the reception stuff... even though i may not remember all of it

Well, I would like you guys in your miltary stuff but hey that's me.......
Reception stuff however is going to be an agreement from both parties. And if you want to get laid after it you will stay semi sober.....

[OneSickPsycho]

I want cheap hookers for my honeymoon.

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by comonboys

Reception stuff however is going to be an agreement from both parties.

Does that mean he gets to vote on your dress and the bridesmaid dresses?

[comonboys]

Originally Posted by Trip

Best advice from first hand experience, get a swatch of cloth that she will be using on the bridesmaid's dresses and go to the tux store by yourself. It will save you an ginormous headache.

I haven't really decided on what that is going to be... LOL I really do have most of it planned in my mind. However the fine details will have to be tweeked.... But I think that's how some of us are.

Originally Posted by neebelung

Does that mean he gets to vote on your dress and the bridesmaid dresses?

NOPE....... not a chance in hell....... Anything girly applies to me. I think he was going with the band, food, music, nothing accessory wise.

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

I want cheap hookers for my honeymoon.

nice, I expected nothing less from you!

[neebelung]

Originally Posted by comonboys

NOPE....... not a chance in hell....... Anything girly applies to me.

But then in all fairness, he should get to pick the guy's attire without your input!

Originally Posted by OneSickPsycho

I want cheap hookers for my honeymoon.

This reminds me of a funny rant I heard on the radio yesterday....

They were talking about how Heather Mills came away from her 4 year marriage to Paul McCartney with $49M.... so they were talking about "Ok, let's assume (even though we know it didn't happen) she gave it up to him EVERY night of their 4 year marriage... that breaks down to over $30,000 per NIGHT with her.... Then look at Elliot Spitzer and the super hot, freaky hooker he got busted with. She only cost $4,000 a night... so Paul McCartney should have just gotten a hot call girl, and he could have gotten out of this for under $7M!!"