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[jtemple]

Haven't looked at my Facebook account in months. Can't say I miss it.

[dReWpY]

Its not the picture that pushed me over the edge, And I'm not done forever with it, I use it to promote my bar shifts and stay in touch with people. Anything I post some how starts a fight. Which is impressive because we have both blocked each other.

[azoomm]

It's because your friends are feeding her information.

Just post non personal stuff. Or, delete it. No one cares.

[Homeslice]

Never had an account, never wanted it.

[Trip]

Just stay on and don't post up updates about your life, just post nonsense and keep up with friends

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by Trip

Just stay on and don't post up updates about your life, just post nonsense and keep up with friends

Actually, this is my favorite. And, for the love of God stop answering any texts it calls from her. All calls. Or, answer but just put the phone next to the radio don't say anything. They DO go away....

[G-Rex]

Originally Posted by azoomm

Actually, this is my favorite. And, for the love of God stop answering any texts it calls from her. All calls. Or, answer but just put the phone next to the radio don't say anything. They DO go away....

And for those that won't, they make restraining orders.

[Trip]

Originally Posted by azoomm

Actually, this is my favorite. And, for the love of God stop answering any texts it calls from her. All calls. Or, answer but just put the phone next to the radio don't say anything. They DO go away....

He has a kid with her, got to keep it somewhat friendly for the kid.

[azoomm]

Originally Posted by Trip

He has a kid with her, got to keep it somewhat friendly for the kid.

You can be friendly without falling into endless phone crap.

[CasterTroy]

Originally Posted by azoomm

You can be friendly without falling into endless phone crap.

Yup! I've been that way for 7 years now....well...until 3 weeks ago, when my ex started her traditional rants and psychobabble on my 16 yr old son, and drove him to my house on HER week. She got all bent outta shape saying that I was

allowing him to run from responsibility and punishment

I let him come home to me because she went on a multi-hour rant because he wasn't hungry and didn't eat a whole plate-full of the dinner she "slaved over the stove" for after "slaving all day at work for their ungrateful asses"

Turns out...her husband was on a 3 week business trip and she was falling apart. She called to lecture me about me sheltering him from punishment. I listened....then she started in on the

well I must be a terrible mother

and

they just hate me any time I ask them to do anything

For the first time since the separation I threw my normally restrained tongue out the window and said

Die for your cause Martyr

and she responded with

FUCK YOU

to which I giggled and said

NO thankyou!

and hung up the phone.
Since then, we've only had contact THRU her husband....whom I adore! and it's been the best 3 weeks in YEARS!!!

Yes...it was childish on my part....but she'd gotten SO comfortible with txting me and calling me, that she would send 10-20 txt a day...with calls almost every other day. All about the kids mind you, but micromanaging every aspect of every event to the second. It was driving my wife crazy. But I was use to it. This was just the excuse we needed to sever communications with her crazy ass!

See SOMETIMES......the whole "friendly divorce because kids are involved" can come full circle and bite you in the ass! I thought we would be different...and we were..for 7 years. But in the end.........ex's be crazy N' shit.