Wtf?! - Page 3

Papa_Complex · 10-31-2012, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Trip

Is it possible he was hoping someone else in the group was friends with her and could get it to her behind your back?

Guy sounds like a fuckin douchebag and also sounds like you may need a new group of friends. Well except for the friend that was cool enough to tell you what the fuck was going on.

The person who contacted me was the other host of the party; the one I didn't know. She was the one who asked me to pass on the number, at the request of her friend who was the guy I didn't know, but had talked to at the party. I had never met either of them before this party. The person who contacted me specifically sent a friend request through Facebook to do this. As it was someone whose home I had been in I accepted, when normally I wouldn't have.

No less a douchebag for asking someone else to do the dirty work. More like a douche AND a coward

Homeslice · 10-31-2012, 12:04 PM

Not a couple as in, only dated a few times and nothing exclusive yet?

Or not a couple as in, she has let it be known that you're just a friend? (and possibly told someone during the party while you weren't within earshot).

Papa_Complex · 10-31-2012, 12:50 PM

Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.

Trip · 10-31-2012, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Papa_Complex

Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.

shit or get off the pot, maybe the guy saw something he really liked and wanted to see if there was potential for chemistry.

there really is no common courtesy when it comes to relationships. If he had real interest in seeing this girl, I don't blame him for trying to find out more info. There are classier ways to approach it though than just sending a request for her number through your friends.

CasterTroy · 10-31-2012, 01:55 PM

So...friends with occasional benefits?

So she's a back-up for when you're not nailing something new or steady?

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Originally Posted by Trip

shit or get off the pot

This for sure!

Papa_Complex · 10-31-2012, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by CasterTroy

So...friends with occasional benefits?

So she's a back-up for when you're not nailing something new or steady?

This for sure!

Likely more the other way around, than that.

Hell, I should have taken the hottie who's a whole legal woman younger than me instead, so you guys wouldn't bother with this crap

CasterTroy · 10-31-2012, 02:12 PM

Whatta you expect from a bunch of married men?!?! We've got nothing but YOU to live thru vicariously! Sheesh man!

Papa_Complex · 10-31-2012, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Trip

shit or get off the pot, maybe the guy saw something he really liked and wanted to see if there was potential for chemistry.

there really is no common courtesy when it comes to relationships. If he had real interest in seeing this girl, I don't blame him for trying to find out more info. There are classier ways to approach it though than just sending a request for her number through your friends.

There are MUCH classier ways that asking a friend to ask the guy who she was out with, when you met her

azoomm · 11-01-2012, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Papa_Complex

Not a couple as in I've known her for more than 10 years and we go out occasionally, but nothing serious. It's got nothing to do with my 'desired territory', but rather common courtesy.

Ok.

So, you went out in public with someone you don't date. Someone decides to make a move, through a host from the party. The number is given to you to give to her.

Are you sure the hostess isn't the problem?

Hell, at least he went through someone after and didn't just walk up to her with you there.

Papa_Complex · 11-02-2012, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by azoomm

Ok.

So, you went out in public with someone you don't date. Someone decides to make a move, through a host from the party. The number is given to you to give to her.

Are you sure the hostess isn't the problem?

Hell, at least he went through someone after and didn't just walk up to her with you there.

Given that both of us were talking to him, at the same time, there would have been no 'walking up.' At least if he had done it then it would have shown some balls, given that we were obviously there together. No tact, but at least balls.

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10-31-2012, 12:04 PM	#2
Homeslice Elitist Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: SF Bay Area Moto: Gix 750 Posts: 11,351	Not a couple as in, only dated a few times and nothing exclusive yet? Or not a couple as in, she has let it be known that you're just a friend? (and possibly told someone during the party while you weren't within earshot).